READING

1 | Discuss the question with a partner. • How can a person be socially successful?

2 | Five teachers give advice to teenagers on soft skills that can help them succeed socially. Read the text and match the headings to the paragraphs. There are 2 extra headings. A. Never ask for help because people will think that you are weak. B. Don't be afraid to fail. It's a path to success. C. Don't panic if a family member steps back. D. Ask for help when you need it. E. Be strong when you have difficulties in your life. F. A friendly greeting can make a big difference. G. Limit the time you spend on people who bring more drama than joy to your life. awkward - causing problems, worry or embarrassment

1. Adrina
I didn't learn this until I went to college, where I was fortunately surrounded by others who showed me the way. I'm sure you've experienced this, too, but I'm often surprised at how quickly a situation can go from awkward to fun when I offer my hand and introduce myself. They immediately start smiling back at me and this makes communication easier for both sides. It is a win-win!
2. Jason
Sometimes things didn't go as I wanted them to. At those times, I felt sad and unmotivated. Then I reminded myself of a conversation with my dad. During the college selection process, I was so afraid of making the wrong decision that I didn't know what to do. My dad told me it was okay to choose one and decide later it wasn't for me. I can't tell you how much better that made me feel. Sometimes we all need a reminder. So, believe me, making mistakes isn't always bad.
3. Helene
Once I had a problem at school and my parents left me alone to solve my problem myself. At first, I felt very lonely. However, when I was able to solve my problem, it helped me be very confident. Later, I learned that it was my parents' way to help me learn to be responsible for my actions, and try to resolve any conflicts in my relationships, in other words, to acquire soft skills.